Social : A Thought Provoking Conversation

This article takes a realistic approach to Gender Issues. There's an entire world aside from the political spectrum; And these issues matter most within our daily lives.....


Although any form of negative treatment constitutes psychological abuse, I would like to narrow the subject.

More than anything, we should consider 'conflicting messages' to be the worst form of psychological abuse. One quick example is when the media repeatedly panders to women, only to declare that the genders should be 'treated the same'.
Or: when they teach women to become 'single parents'; while also declaring that somehow 'boys and girls should be raised alike'.
Although each message by itself is clearly abusive, the sheer-confusion takes it to a heightened level.

The media claims that 'girls have a low self-esteem'. But then, they discuss humiliating subjects, such as 'harassment in the workforce'. This disgusting issue certainly demeans my self-identity. And it defeats the purpose of the previous idea regarding low 'female esteem'.
I could name an endless list of CONTRADICTIONS imposed by the media. But there's simply not enough time.


Here's another conflicting example: Suppose, I briefly glance at an attractive lady who's walking across the street. She may become annoyed by this. Her reaction, by itself, is cruel and oppressive. But, for arguments sake, we'll say that she gave a warm response (rather than a negative one). Either way, most other people would regard me as some kind of scumbag. Even if she's friendly, the man still faces public ridicule. Plus, when ladies openly discuss my 'interest' for her, this is somewhat arrogant & egotistical on her part. Wouldn't you agree?


Now, let's add to the confusion. Despite the cheap-shots spoken against men, People still claim that girls continuously face negative stereotypes. ---- Either way, it just doesn't add up….



Chapter 5) Now, let's imagine that some-guy becomes intimately involved with a lady. People in society will generally act as though, the woman is being 'victimized'. But all the while, they also claim that she's somehow negatively stereotyped (although, obviously the male is being labeled). This mixture of conflicting ideas is not even possible. You clearly place shame upon him, while also teaching her to overcome feelings of self-guilt.
....Not to mention her arrogance, beyond all else.
SO, with all considered, why does she create such contradictions? Ultimately, women want to control each conflicting issue.

But to make matters even worse: the media taunts men over the whole idea of 'female bisexual behavior'. This is a very illogical message. You're the same people who think that it's degrading for a lady to make love with her boyfriend. But, at the same time, you're trying to literally force women to commence with each other. Wouldn't you consider that to be degrading? Basically, it just doesn't add-up.

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regarding the 'same sex' issue: It's pure insanity when the media trys forcing her to do this.
And, speaking of "Abuse", notice how the media taunts men over the whole idea:
"Look guys, Watch us closely." "Ha Ha!" "It's not necessary to have a man." This brings me to yet another obvious issue: why to the "Activists" create so many double standards? Who said that the practice of bisexuality should pertain specifically to girls, rather than boys? Also, why does this backlash onto society. It suggests that the media has total control over your life.
......Here, as usual, IT JUST DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE.
Now, let's add to the confusion. Usually, when a girl becomes intimate with her male partner, this relationship ironically becomes somewhat degrading to him. Perhaps, she causes deliberate pain against him. Or she makes derogatory remarks about 'how badly he wants it'. Essentially, she puts him into a vulnerable position.



Even if she treats him with total disrespect, people will still regard her as the innocent victim. Why?



The mainstream media encourages women to mistreat every male? Indeed, our literature & television consistently targets against men. And it backlashes onto society.
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Chapter 6) Every campaign provokes a female-centric viewpoint. I cannot possibly list every example. But for starters:

they teach girls that it's okay to walk into boys bathrooms.

They also provoke classroom-learning-themes which revolve around her.

Many educational facilities have even begun studies and classes which exclusively allow girls to attend. (and of course, this idea has gained huge media fanfare).

They'll segregated many science classes, under the pretext that girls are more comfortable when not in his presence.

Yet, in contrast, teachers HAVE ALSO integrated gymnastics classes (which were previously segregated).

They also teach her to participate on boy's sports teams, while disallowing him to play on girl's teams.

The media promotes attitudes of female supremacy & girl power.

Yet, also claiming that she has a low self-esteem.

This particular theme allows us to become emotionally attached to our girls. But people deny the fact, there's any injustice whatsoever against boys. (Please remember: the focus here is not specifically on any issue. But my overall purpose is to expose their endless contradictions.)



Chapter 7) There are too many examples to possibly mention. But, I shall choose an extreme point to mention: Our ADVERTISERS have spent decades launching numerous smear campaigns against males. What could possibly justify this activity?
......Products ranging from 'Coffee', 'household appliances', 'blue jeans', 'breakfast cereals', or what-have-you are all guilty of committing this degree of gender-bias. And it stands to prove the severity of this entire problem. Indeed, the 'Imagery Campaigns' are everywhere.
(And if you combine this with the everyday presence of Talk-Shows, Magazines, Books, Female-orientated Medical Journals, Satirical Humor, Abusive Sitcoms, and what-have-you…… The problem is never-ending.)
.... But it's especially interesting when a senseless advertisement gives all-out favoritism to women. What purpose does that serve?


Chapter 8) There's another aspect which needs to be addressed. Femme-groups within the media tend to be 'sneaky' and 'underhanded'.
For example, every time they give a public speech, their mere body-language and facial-expressions clearly suggest ill intentions.
Also, most literature tends to be psychologically abusive, as well.
In other words: they're making remarks which create an unsavory atmosphere, but at the same time, they also remain conspicuous.

Chapter 9) And I should remind you, that, it's not in her best interest either. We're raising our girls to become Mediacratic Zombies. Whilst disallowing her to establish her own identity SEPARATE FROM any extreme definitions.

In other words: The Press is attempting a distinct form of Mind-Control over our girls. And eventually, she will be stripped of any basic personality. It's truly comparable to the absolute worst 'Science Fiction' story.


Chapter 10) I've stated before that it's impossible to list every example. But hopefully, this gives you some idea of the problems facing our children. But, we can easily sum everything up into two short words: 'Psychological Abuse'.


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Chapter 11 ***)Now, here's alittle insight: Let me ask a few simple questions to every lady:
1) How would you like it, if some guy called you a scum-bag anytime you glanced in his direction?
2) Would you be happy if countless Talk-Shows & Magazines targeted against you?
3) How would you feel if people stereotyped you as being insatiably Sex-crazed?
4) Or, if you were pelted with countless routine insults which insulted your integrity?

Chapter 12 ***) Could you ladies imagine how intimidated you'd feel, if everyone always grouped against you? Or, how you'd react if the media always disagreed with you?

Chapter 13 ***)Worst of all, are those calculating & underhanded studies performed by Psychologists. And not surprisingly, those so-called studies always supply the information which is desired. It's all very discouraging. (and, depending upon their mood, it could very-well lead to any direction.


Chapter 14) Okay….I don't like to talk about Politics, but, here's one point to mention: Do you remember the E.R.A.? I could never understand why a group of abusive women would derive such an idea. These ladies wage as much destruction against men, as possible. So, why would they suddenly propose this 'equality' Amendment? Please consider the psychological aspect. For starters: she's putting me through a great deal of frustration. These 'nifty' ideas are difficult to debate. But worst of all, it tears families apart. Pitting mothers against their sons. This basically shows you how effectively these methods work.

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Chapter 15)
Here's something else to think about: Anytime a guy physically notices a lady, she IS often THRILLED by this attention.
Sadly, most males don't realize that she indeed wants to be noticed by the opposite sex.
For example: when she tries to look her best, most guys don't even consider that she seeks his attention. Honestly speaking, most women become unhappy when you DON'T notice her.
With that said, it's rather interesting how the Media labels him negatively, despite his overly passive behavior. But, as you can very well see, corrupt Journalists serve no good purpose for anyone.
Their 'omnipresence' is bad for ALL people, not just males. And ultimately, the Media is constantly telling EVERYONE what-to-think. Another word for this procedure is MIND-CONTROL.
And, the sheer volume of daily torment constitutes the worst abuse imaginable.

Its customary for a Guy to kneel down for his partner